Things To Stop Doing While Dating in 2023

Dating can be a Rollercoaster and many have said its way harder in 2023. In reality, dating and relationships take work and commitment. Without work and commitment, relationships fail. There are many flaws in this time of year, that is causing many problems. After a while the water is boiling over! Here are things that we as humans should stop doing in the dating world!

Listening to Social Media Quotes 
   When you listen to social media, after a while false narratives start to linger in your head. In 2023, many quotes about love and dating are very toxic. Many tell you to do certain things that is very immature. Some of these quotes are very unhealthy for the dating world. Like for example, many quotes about ghosting someone. Ghosting has been regulated too much to the point where people do it everyday. Many quotes about ghosting people, it became a vicious cycle. Becareful when it comes to reading advice on Instagram or Facebook mainly because one person you see on there can become a bad influence.

No More Talking About Past Relationships 
   It is time to cut ties with the past relationships you've had. The reason why is because, when you talk about past relationships it can bother the person you are dating. Not only that, you have to learn how to let go of the past. If you don't, it's gonna eat you away and ruin something special. It is easier said than done but you are not in those horrible situations anymore. It's time to enjoy yourself with this new love. Those old relationships are gone for a reason.

Listening To Specific Friends About Relationship Advice
    Certain people you hang out with can really cause a hole into your relationship. Male or female, you should always think about what advice you are taking in from someone. Rather it be your family, friends, or coworkers. If you immediately listen to them without thinking about it, you can lose out on a lot. Never go to someone who immediately gives you advice to be toxic or break up with someone. Mainly because, they never have lasting relationships and most of them are toxic friends. Toxic friends mainly give that advice. Why? They feel that since they aren't happy in a relationship, you have to suffer to. Keep am eye on who you talk to in general mainly because of that. There is a show that a lot of people know called the Boondocks. In one episode, Robert Freeman brought a woman home to stay for a few weeks. This woman had a friend who was a horrible influence. That friend would tell her to do the most outrageous things if the man even messed up once. The woman struggled keeping a guy because she was listening to this toxic friend too much. The people you keep around you can influence your actions. It can turn into a bad situation.

STOP Seeking Approval From Family And Friends 
       Stop seeking Validation from your family and friends. The truth is, they don't run your life. This is your love life and listening to whether your family wants you to date that person can become a huge problem. If you really love this person, you have to set boundaries with your family and friends. Get them to realize that, this isn't about them and they need to respect your feelings. You shall never change who you are and leave opportunities to get validation from no one.

Get Rid Of That Agenda!
Get Rid of that agenda! Stop worrying about creating a storyline and realize your both in this relationship. Creating a storyline off your own agenda can derail your relationship because your trying to make the relationship go the way you want your storyline to go. It's time to erase that storyline and be yourself. In reality, when you be yourself, that person become more in love with you. When you try to create a storyline, that person loses interest.

In conclusion, Love is not hard. It's really how you go about. When you do certain things and don't think about it before you do it. It can ruin your life. In 2023, the dating world is a bit hard but that should never stop you from finding that someone







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